How to Be a Successful Muslim Wife?

In Islam, marriage is a blessed contract between a man and a woman. Each have their own role to play in making a marriage successful. It is a bit more difficult but certainly possible to make even a selected partner in a marriage a success.

• Choose a good husband: Ask your parents, they have more experience of life.

• Use your beauty: Allah has given you beauty to win the heart of your husband. Wear provocative clothes. Put Kohl in your eyes. Wear a pleasant perfume, your husband should smell a pleasant smell from you. Use the most beautiful jewelry you have.

• Share your beauty only with your husband: Men don’t want anyone else looking at their wife.Preserve your beauty from others by observing full Hijab.

• Greet your husband: Remember your husband is tired when he comes back home from work, so greet him with a wonderful greeting. Smile and say kind words to him.

• Appear as cheerful as you can: When you’re with your husband, don’t think about your worries.Have a sense of humor, make him laugh, play games with him.

• Listen to your husband: When he’s talking about his troubles and worries, listen to him.

• Listen to his Halal Demands: Let him improve you as a person. Encourage him to enjoin people to righteousness and discourage people from sinning. Encourage him to meet with his good friends and relatives. Provide him with Halal entertainment yourself whenever you can.

• Obey your husband: Obeying your husband is Wajib and is one of the things that leads you to Jannah. Do not obey him if he tells you to do something which is against the commands of Allah and His Messenger and inform him of your rights and his duties if he is not acting accordingly.

• Please him: Bring him good news, as much as you can. Respond to his wishes.Prepare his favorite meals. Let everything be as your husband wants. He is your key to Jannah.

• Apologize: If your husband is angry with you about something, apologize, see how sweet the argument will end. Even if it is not your fault, just say "I’m sorry".

• Thank your husband: Thank him for all the nice things he does.

• Make Du’a: Ask Allah. He will make your marriage successful.

• Read good books: Read good books like "The Ideal Muslimah" by Dr. Muhammad ‘Ali Al-Hashimi and "You can be the Happiest Woman in the World" by Dr. A’id al-Qarni & Huda Khattab (translator).

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